[ 沉默寡言不再是金 ]
你们要学会在面试其间对其'老板'
成功"sell youself" (用英文哟)
那么你的就业机会才高
这就是社会啦!
Monday, July 25, 2005
笑
其實，做人已經難到在笑的時候都不一定是想笑的了，既然是不想笑的，那你在笑什麼？
**** **** **** **** **** ****
「尼爾，你看看那個新來的總機，下半身的重量大概佔了體重的三分之二吧，哇哈哈哈.....」這就是課長的冷笑話，無聊粗鄙而且沒水準。
「啊....哈....是啊，是啊.....」該死的是我也笑了，總是這樣。有時候並不是你很想去附和，但卻很莫名其妙的在當下那一秒鐘做出了附和的動作。
**** **** **** **** **** ****
做人真的已經難到在笑的時候都不一定是想笑的了，難怪佛家說人生在世就是一種修行，苦不但比樂多，而且鮮艷難忘。我想起小時候，那段想哭就哭，想笑就哈哈大笑的日子，走在往壽司店的路上，突然覺得空虛。
我小學的時候，被同學欺負就哭，看卡通影片就笑，被爸媽罵了就哭，跟玩伴在一起就笑。然後時間過了，到了國中，突然不太哭了，也不知道為什麼，可能是覺得自己長大了，哭會很丟臉。但笑還是一樣的，打電動的時候是笑的，跟同學出去玩時是笑的，學會自己去電影院買票看電影是笑的。
那時候的笑是真的想笑的，特別輕盈，特別悠揚，特別不一樣。
然後高中了，笑一樣是快樂的，只是有了煩惱了。有時候甚至會把笑建立在煩惱上面。例如，明明物理考差了，就笑著對同學說「我是故意的啦！」，或是數學不懂了，就笑著對同學說「是數學背叛了我，不是我對不起它。」但其實在騎著腳踏車回家的路上，心絲竟然糾結了起來，原因是因為數學，是因為物理。
然後，高中三年慢得像三十年，大學好像在天的另一邊，笑更是在大學後面。從高中開始，笑就模糊了，我也一直沒去注意它為什麼模糊了，就這樣，像國民黨辦事的效率一樣，我沒去注意，沒去處理為什麼笑不一樣了，問題就一直延宕延宕，到了十年後的現在。
是这样吗?
**** **** **** **** **** ****
「尼爾，你看看那個新來的總機，下半身的重量大概佔了體重的三分之二吧，哇哈哈哈.....」這就是課長的冷笑話，無聊粗鄙而且沒水準。
「啊....哈....是啊，是啊.....」該死的是我也笑了，總是這樣。有時候並不是你很想去附和，但卻很莫名其妙的在當下那一秒鐘做出了附和的動作。
**** **** **** **** **** ****
做人真的已經難到在笑的時候都不一定是想笑的了，難怪佛家說人生在世就是一種修行，苦不但比樂多，而且鮮艷難忘。我想起小時候，那段想哭就哭，想笑就哈哈大笑的日子，走在往壽司店的路上，突然覺得空虛。
我小學的時候，被同學欺負就哭，看卡通影片就笑，被爸媽罵了就哭，跟玩伴在一起就笑。然後時間過了，到了國中，突然不太哭了，也不知道為什麼，可能是覺得自己長大了，哭會很丟臉。但笑還是一樣的，打電動的時候是笑的，跟同學出去玩時是笑的，學會自己去電影院買票看電影是笑的。
那時候的笑是真的想笑的，特別輕盈，特別悠揚，特別不一樣。
然後高中了，笑一樣是快樂的，只是有了煩惱了。有時候甚至會把笑建立在煩惱上面。例如，明明物理考差了，就笑著對同學說「我是故意的啦！」，或是數學不懂了，就笑著對同學說「是數學背叛了我，不是我對不起它。」但其實在騎著腳踏車回家的路上，心絲竟然糾結了起來，原因是因為數學，是因為物理。
然後，高中三年慢得像三十年，大學好像在天的另一邊，笑更是在大學後面。從高中開始，笑就模糊了，我也一直沒去注意它為什麼模糊了，就這樣，像國民黨辦事的效率一樣，我沒去注意，沒去處理為什麼笑不一樣了，問題就一直延宕延宕，到了十年後的現在。
是这样吗?
Sunday, July 17, 2005
aries^^
It's time to assert yourself -- which, of course, has never been a problem for you. It's your specialty. You'll be even better at it now, however, and for some time to come -- but in order to pull it off, you'll need to believe in yourself as much as others believe in you. Start work on the project by letting your deepest feelings show to the person you trust most. Their confidence in you, via that intense, heart-to-heart conversation, will get you off in the right direction.
this is how my horoscope say about me today, what is that really mean?
this is how my horoscope say about me today, what is that really mean?
Friday, July 15, 2005
: conversation :
the more u think
the more lonely u will realise u are
-----
every person comes into our life with a purpose
the frens that we know
have the same purpose as well
some people may just drop by n stir up ur life n then leave
the left not becoz they duwan u
they left becoz they have accomplished their mission
just feel easy with it
i made alot of new frens
some frens after this apart wont get to see each other anymore
though i feel sad
i duwan them to leave me
but i know
none of us can do anything to change it
they leave for other person
n we leave for other people too
the more lonely u will realise u are
-----
every person comes into our life with a purpose
the frens that we know
have the same purpose as well
some people may just drop by n stir up ur life n then leave
the left not becoz they duwan u
they left becoz they have accomplished their mission
just feel easy with it
i made alot of new frens
some frens after this apart wont get to see each other anymore
though i feel sad
i duwan them to leave me
but i know
none of us can do anything to change it
they leave for other person
n we leave for other people too
me???
THE PEACEMAKER
are the born diplomats. They are aware of others' needs and moods andoften think of others before themselves. Naturally analytical and veryintuitive they don't like to be alone. Friendship and companionship isvery important and can lead them to be successful in life, but on theother hand they'd rather be alone than in an uncomfortable relationship.Being naturally shy they should learn to boost their self-esteem andexpress themselves freely and seize the moment and not put things off.
this is description about me according to birth date which i read from a forwarded mail.hehe~
Your birth date describes who we are, what we are good at and what our inborn abilities are. It also points to what we have to learn and thechallenges we are facing.
are the born diplomats. They are aware of others' needs and moods andoften think of others before themselves. Naturally analytical and veryintuitive they don't like to be alone. Friendship and companionship isvery important and can lead them to be successful in life, but on theother hand they'd rather be alone than in an uncomfortable relationship.Being naturally shy they should learn to boost their self-esteem andexpress themselves freely and seize the moment and not put things off.
this is description about me according to birth date which i read from a forwarded mail.hehe~
Your birth date describes who we are, what we are good at and what our inborn abilities are. It also points to what we have to learn and thechallenges we are facing.
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